Homemade Baby Wraps and Slings From Old Bed Sheet
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| Anneliese in my purchased, non then frugal, simply oh so practiced investment babe carrier. It's a cantankerous between a mei tai and a wrap, (like a mei tai, just instead of shoulder straps, at that place are shoulder panels, made of cloth that stretches in just one direction), is very comfortable, and versatile, not to mention pretty. |
My friend, Daniella, a mother of 3, approached me, asking if she would be able to write a guest post on the topic of baby wearing. Babe wearing is something that I recollect all mothers should know how to practise, as information technology often ways that you lot can practise without an expensive stroller if y'all accept a expert carrier, or at the very to the lowest degree, infant wearing allows yous to be more productive at dwelling and in full general.
Baby wearing is something that I have invested money in, as a proficient carrier was important to me, but equally you know, I'm into saving coin, while at the aforementioned fourth dimension, not compromising (too much) on quality of life, which is why I was very excited to become this post on frugal, and extra frugal, ways to infant carry. I hope yous'll relish it equally much as I have, and find it educational and useful.
Disclaimer: I am not a babywearing consultant, nor am I any type of practiced; simply a
curious mom who has done a lot of enquiry and experimentation. I do not have feel with all the unlike kinds of carriers either, but I have explored the options and I know a thing or two almost the types of carriers I don't have feel with likewise. I hope you find it helpful!
So no ane told yous that your newborn would not exist content to lie in her DIY baby crib and watch her mobile while y'all spent your motherhood get out writing the next great American novel, huh? Babies are funny that way; they want to be held. All. The. Time. Preferably with nursing involved.
Well, who tin blame them? Non long ago they were being held 24/7 in the warmth and comfort of their mothers'; wombs.
Problem is, y'all need to Practice Stuff. Like swallow. And go to the bath. And maybe fifty-fifty (gasp) throw a load in the washer.
Well, this problem has been around for as long as babies take, and fortunately, our ancestors came up with a solution centuries, perhaps millenia ago. Yeah. The solution to your problem has been around for eons.
Information technology is called babywearing. You may accept seen some parents walking effectually with babies strapped to them using all kinds of fancy contraptions. Well guess what? Our ancestors did not have Baby Bjorns or Ergos. They simply had scraps of cloth or leather lying effectually. In traditional cultures yous'll see mothers wearing their babies all the fourth dimension, using the same scarves, shawls and wraps they wear on a regular footing. They use what they have.
Yous can too! You practise not have to spend a small fortune on a fancy carrier to clothing your infant! In fact, you can probably wearable your babe right at present with materials you already take at habitation! Want to know how?
First, A Brief Lesson in Physiology
Um, what? My baby is screaming and you desire to teach me physiology?! I clinch you this part volition be quick and have lots of pictures, and it is very of import! If you lot take been thinking of getting a Babe Bjorn or similar style carrier, this is why y'all may want to reconsider:
Bjorns, Snuglis, Infantinos and the similar are designed like the carrier on the left. They carry the babe by the crotch. Not merely is this uncomfortable, it is not conducive to proper hip evolution.
Let me make this clear however: information technology volition probably non harm your baby to clothing him in a Bjorn. This is considering, quite frankly, information technology will not be comfortable to wearable your infant for extended periods in a carrier like this, nor will it exist comfy to wear when he gets bigger--two or iii months, or even six weeks. As well, if your baby is uncomfortable, trust me, he will let you lot know... so, no, wearing a baby in a Bjorn is not a offense against humanity equally some babywearers may imply.
(So if information technology's non practiced for the baby and not even that comfy for very long... why do people spend then much $$$ on this thing? Totally beyond me. I suspect it is because the sleek backpack-similar design is less daunting to parents than the crunchy look of a traditional carrier. Maybe it seems a lot simpler to just buckle the kid in and go. Nonetheless, there are plenty of physiologically correct carriers out at that place with buckles--the Ergo, the Beco and Manduca, to name a few--if buckles are your matter. I tried an Infantino and to exist honest, it was not whatsoever faster to put on and secure the baby in than my stretchy Sleepy (now called Boba) wrap--and information technology was much less comfy!!! Then I approximate I'll chalk it up to extremely successful marketing.)
Anyway, the bespeak is, brand sure your baby is positioned correctly in any carrier you lot employ. Forgive the Spanish; you'll get the gist:
From the side:
In words: infant should be in a seated position with her knees in a higher place her bum. The textile should extend from knee to knee and there should be a safe amount of cloth below her bum to create a overnice pocket for her to sit in. (Notation that in the second motion-picture show the lady is wearing the baby likewise depression. That is why she looks so uncomfortable! The baby should be loftier on your chest; you lot should exist able to kiss the superlative of her head.)
If she is a newborn, y'all will detect that when you lot place her on your chest in the upright position, she'll naturally tuck her knees up underneath her breadbasket. This is perfectly salubrious as well, as is the cradle position, which should look like this:
Not this:
Or in the USCPSC'due south rather overwhelming graphic: 
Wearing your baby incorrectly in a sling can result in suffocation or injury from falling. Make sure he is secure, his confront is visible and facing upwards and he has a articulate airway. Got it? Not bad! Onwards!
Colicky infant? Read that a carrier can help relieve symptoms of colic only yous don't have one? Need to sweep the floor/do the laundry/blazon two handed? In other words: need a carrier RIGHT At present? This section is for you. Think a minute almost the types of cloth you take effectually your firm, and see if any of the following options are bachelor to you lot:
A rebozo is a Mexican woven scarf, two-ii.75 meters long (lxxx"-110") and near 62-76 cm broad (25"-30"). Information technology is used as a sling by tying information technology effectually the shoulder and torso using a slipknot. But since you're probably not planning a trip to Mexico in the next ten minutes, guess what? You probably have something y'all can utilise instead. Got one of these?
They are perfect. A long, broad scarf or shawl or wraparound skirt tin do the trick.
You tin can even utilise a bedsheet folded in half!
Now do this:
Voila! Yous have a sling! Yous are at present free to exercise this:
At present go forth and do your laundry!
Do note, however, that these emergency rebozos are not nearly every bit comfortable equally an actual Mexican woven rebozo. Don't gauge all babywearing according to your experience with this, okay? This is simply to get you through the adjacent few hours or days until you can brand or buy something more comfortable! Every bit with whatever sling, switch shoulders often!
To soothe a colicky infant, the upright, knees-tucked-upward position is best. Try walking around the block or bouncing on an practice brawl. The motion combined with the tightly gathered, embraced feeling, the contact with you and the sound of your heartbeat and your breathing--all remind your babe of the womb.
If you happen to take a longer cloth, you can use any of the carries that match its length as listed here or here. YouTube has a wealth of instructional videos that can teach you how to practice all types of carries. It is possible to tie your baby on your back in a rucksack bear using something of similar length to the emergency rebozo (a pashmina scarf, a sheet): if it's not long plenty to wrap effectually and necktie in front, you can just tie under the babe's bum. But I can't vouch for how comfortable that volition be!
Important rubber note: never use a stretchy wrap to bear a baby on your back. The only exception to this rule is the Wrapsody Stretch Hybrid, because it simply stretches in one management. And of course, all back carries should be practiced several times over a soft surface and/or with a spotter until you gain conviction.
Emergency Faux Stretchy Wrap
Got 3 T-shirts, a piece of yarn and a pair of scissors?
Is that brilliant or what?!
BUT: Here is a follow-up video on using it correctly. Notation that in order to exist the correct size the T-shirts should fit you, not be two sizes bigger like in the original video; too, the T-shirts should non have seams down the sides. Also annotation that these types of simulated wraps carriers are not adjustable, so if someone else wants to apply i, you may take to brand another that will fit him or her.
Now that she mentions it...
In that location are iii reasons information technology is not recommended to wear your baby in an outward facing position:
- The baby is beingness held by the crotch and non in the correct physiological position (see "A Brief Lesson in Physiology" above)
- The position shifts your center of gravity, making it less comfortable for the wearer
- Your baby might become overstimulated
However, placing your infant outward facing with her legs tucked upward and crossed lotus-fashion (as well called "Buddha-fashion" or "froggied"), rather than dangling down, neutralizes Effect #1. (This can be washed in a sling besides.) Many babies dear that position as it helps save gas. And again, if your infant is uncomfortable or overstimulated, trust me, she will permit you know!
This section is for those of you lot who can spend some more than fourth dimension and money on a carrier but would rather spend equally little as reasonably possible. Some require a sewing auto.
If you don't take a sewing machine, you can always accept the cloth to your local seamstress or tailor and have him or her do the sewing for you lot. It volition most likely nonetheless come out less expensive than buying a commercial carrier. You could theoretically stitch by hand as well, merely... I dunno about you, only the very idea of hemming a v-yard wrap by hand makes me want to strangle something.
Onwards:
There are lots of good reasons to own a sling.
They are ridiculously easy to use: super quick to put on and take off.
Ring slings specifically are a breeze to adjust.
Y'all tin can nurse in them and employ the tail equally a cover, and you don't have to do a lot of awkward adjusting to get the baby in and out of position.
You can acquit in a variety of positions, including tummy-to-tummy, cradle, hip and even back (with an older baby)--and can even swing the babe over to side or back for a moment if y'all demand her out of the way.
You can use them with newborns all the mode upwards through toddlerhood.
The large disadvantage of slings is the uneven weight distribution. The bulk of the weight falls on 1 shoulder and your upper back. There's no lower back support. Some babywearers solve the showtime trouble by wearing two slings at once, and hey, if you're making your ain, you lot might also make two! Yet, for long-term carrying, slings can't concur a candle to woven wraps or mei tais (see below). You're supposed to switch shoulders every so ofttimes while conveying for long periods, which is annoying.
You accept 3 options here: a pouch sling, a no-sew ring sling, and a yeah-stitch ring sling.
As for pouches, there are plenty of tutorials online, like this one, just quite honestly I don't recollect they're worth the effort. They are super like shooting fish in a barrel to employ, but their lack of adjustibility makes them obsolete very quickly, and you can't nurse in them.
I say go for a ring sling. Whether y'all're sewing or not, you'll need a cloth that is of similar dimensions to the rebozo above, and a pair of sling rings. You can club sling rings from here, or--especially if you don't live in the Usa--dig around and come across if there are any local ring sling producers in your area. They buy them wholesale and then they can probably sell them to yous for virtually the same cost, without waiting for shipping.
I happen to have such a lady in the neighborhood next to mine, then I bought mine from her. The advantage of the no-stitch is self-axiomatic. It'southward a great option if you want to try information technology out merely are not ready to "commit" to a particular cloth even so... or if you don't sew. The disadvantage is that it's a little sloppier to use and you tin can get dislocated about which end is which, making it more than awkward to put on.
Here is how it'due south done, every bit demonstrated past January Andrea, whose amazing work I'm going to be linking to a lot:
There are lots of YouTube tutorials on proper use and adjustment of the sling. In one case yous're prepare to commit and tired of futzing around with the shoulder terminate, you're ready to sew the rings on.
IMO this could totally exist done by manus, though information technology may exist somewhat tedious.
There are many means to arrange the cloth to fold neatly around the rings, many of them listed hither by Jan Andrea. I made my one-layer sling co-ordinate to her method. She has tutorials for other kinds of slings as well as other carriers: pouches equally above, and Asian-style carriers (discussed beneath).
Wraps are my personal favorite. They are super comfortable, they fit everybody and they are extremely versatile, suitable for babies from day one through toddlerhood. They are made out of either stretchy or non-stretchy (woven) cloth.
There are a gazillion ways to tie a wrap, depending on your personal specifications (what's near comfortable for you and baby), and you can wear your baby in front, on your hip, on your shoulder (in newborn burp position), and on your back (simply with woven wraps).
You can nurse in them, as well, but this requires retying and/or adjusting, depending on the carry yous are using.
The disadvantages: the majority of the material and the learning curve (particularly with woven wraps and particularly with back carries). Depending on the type of cloth, it tin can exist unsuitable to wear in very hot climates; withal, there are lighter wraps available, and some of the carries are libation than others.
IMO it'southward totally worth spending the time to acquire. It'southward a whole new world of comfort and ease wearing your baby and it actually isn't that difficult one time you gain confidence. (And dude. You can wear your baby--yeah, even your newborn--on your dorsum. Imagine the possibilities!!!)
Making a wrap is very simple. You only need a piece of cloth that is well-nigh 25"-thirty" (62-76 cm) wide and 4-5 yards/meters long. Certain kinds of cloth don't need to be hemmed; otherwise, you'll need to hem or surge the rough edges to prevent fraying.
Here is a comprehensive guide to making a wrap, including how to choose fabric.
Stretchy wraps are the nearly popular--call back Moby Wrap--and reason for that is that they are very forgiving and extremely "poppable" (babywearing lingo for piece of cake in-and-out without retying or adjusting the wrap).
They are unremarkably worn using the pocket front wrap cantankerous comport; you simply tie the wrap effectually yourself, insert baby and get. They're wonderful for newborns, but equally the baby gets heavier he will start to sag and the wrap will be less supportive.
If y'all'd similar to make a stretchy wrap, buy iv-5 yards/meters of T-shirt cloth and cut it in half lengthwise and so you take 2 pieces 25"-30" broad. Yous don't want information technology too stretchy because otherwise it won't support your baby.
Woven wraps are a little trickier to apply considering in most carries you have to put them on effectually the baby, tightening and adjusting every bit you go. But it's totally worth learning. You can do anything with these wraps, and they are extremely comfy and supportive, even for heavy toddlers. Of class, a simple piece of textile is non going to be as comfortable every bit a fancy wrap that retails at $100, but it will definitely practise for a small baby.
Cotton gauze (muslin) is a great cloth for these because it is light and breathable, soft and flexible with some requite, just quite strong. Wrapsody BaliBaby Breeze and Calin Bleu wraps are made of cotton wool gauze.
I made a pair out of stuff I ordered on sale at $iii per chiliad. That's less than ten bucks per wrap. And I apply them all. The. Time. Super comfy. Definitely my favorite.
The fancy, expensive wraps (referred to as German language-Mode Wovens) are made of very strong material (usually cotton, but sometimes with a blend of linen, silk or wool) that is woven on the diagonal, lending them some give which makes them really mold to the shape of the wearer and infant without being stretchy.
Once again, check out YouTube for tutorials on the various ways to necktie them. My personal favorites are FCC (forepart cantankerous carry; super easy and just as poppable as a stretchy wrap) and DH (double hammock) for back carrying.
Speaking of back carrying, at that place are also numerous methods for getting the baby on your back which you can as well learn from YouTube. I recommend the Santa Toss for very little guys and the Hip Scoot for older babies who don't demand to be carried quite as high. The Superman Fly was worth learning just to show off. :P
The virtually popular of the Asian-fashion carriers is the mei tai. (MT) I'll first insert a disclaimer here and say that I oasis't actually tried one, but many of my babywearing friends have one and love information technology. A mei tai is a square or rectangle of fabric with straps on each corner. It it almost as versatile equally a woven wrap in terms of how you can bear your infant: front, hip, and back, newborn through toddler (with a caveat on the newborn; newborns and modest babies will have to be carried with their legs tucked under until they are big enough to spread their legs comfortably, making the standard-size mei tai non ideal for very little babies. Yous can make the mei tai smaller for this purpose, but of course, that means making a new one when baby is bigger).
People in warmer climates tend to prefer them over wraps because there is less cloth. (IMO a rucksack or kangaroo bear with a gauze wrap is probably on par if not cooler, since MTs tend to be made from thicker fabric and/or several layers of it. Only over again, I haven't tried.)
They are more simple to tie, which is both their reward and their disadvantage over wraps. You won't exist drowning in a pile of fabric, just you won't get the kind of support yous'll get with a double hammock acquit either. Some mei tais are made with buckles (phew, buckles!) and/or extra padding for the shoulder.
SSCs (soft structured carriers) like Ergo and Yamo are made basically along a like principle, but make use of adjustable straps and more buckles to make a mod haversack-like affair for you wrap-phobes.
I have not tried these carriers either, only I suspect they are not whatsoever more comfortable than a high-quality, properly tied mei tai is; besides, they can simply be used for front and back carries and are simply suitable for newborns with a special insert.
Homemade Mei Tais require less cloth than ring slings or wraps do, but more piece of work.
January Andrea has a tutorial for a basic mei tai here, with links to other patterns below.
Among them you'll find a pattern for an onbuhimo, which is the Japanese verson of a mei tai, with rings at the bottom corners instead of straps. Non sure what the advantage is; if anything it seems like it would be more than complicated to put on. Maybe it's that you merely have to necktie it once, making it easier to suit. Anyway, they sure wait snazzy!
The p odaegi is a Korean carrier made of a wide console fastened to a long strap on top. Information technology is primarily used for back carries that are tied over the chest ("torso carries"), making information technology suitable only for older babies who can concur their heads up... though I have seen some YouTube videos demonstrating a high newborn back carry with a podaegi tied over the shoulders. Hither's Jan'due south tutorial for making one.
When to Invest in a Commercial Carrier
You can totally wear your baby comfortably and long-term with any of the above solutions. Don't get me wrong.
Yet, there are good reasons why commercial carriers are and then expensive. They are, of class, professionally fabricated; the material is hand-selected and tested for immovability, forcefulness, and support. Overall, they are likely to be more than comfortable and final longer than bootleg versions. So if y'all observe yourself babywearing oftentimes, but wishing for something more supportive, maybe it's time to buy one.
Only you don't take to buy them new. Woven wraps, specifically, last a very long time and even get softer and nicer to use when they are pre-loved. For this reason they have good resale value as well, so you lot can probably get a decent percentage of the investment back when y'all're ready to sell it to someone else.
I recommend visiting the For Sale or Trade forums on TheBabyWearer.com, or finding an online forum or Facebook group of local babywearers and asking if anyone's interested in selling (or giving away!) a used carrier. Occasionally you tin observe used carriers on eBay.
I highly recommend paying a visit to TheBabyWearer.com, joining the forums and learning the little tricks of the trade. There is so much information out there and and so many parents like y'all who are eager to share it and learn from each other. If you are non the type of person who can learn this kind of stuff on the Internet, at that place are professional person babywearing consultants who will probably exist happy to help you lot out. Go along an eye out for advertisements for workshops in your area. Enjoy!
[From Penny]- This post reminds me of when I went to a homeschooling get together with my kids, and brought along my stroller. The group wanted to go for a foraging walk, in a place where strollers wouldn't be able to go. Of course, I forgot my carrier at home, simply I took a sheet and ended up tying a rucksack bear on my back to concur the baby. Information technology worked, even if information technology wasn't the most comfortable carrier ever.
I simply wanted to add three more "in a pinch" carrier possibilities.
My husband grew up in South Africa, and he remembers existence worn on the back of Angie, his family'due south maid, carried in a towel, while she was washing dishes. Manifestly, this is one of the standard means of baby wearing in Africa, every bit evidenced past a whole bunch of videos on Youtube of African ladies baby wearing like this.
You can practise this same carry with a sail or a large slice of not stretchy cloth.
In a real pinch, you can also make a carrier from sweatpants or even vesture clothing your baby in your shirt!
I've worn my babe, every bit mentioned, in a sheet, in a stretchy wrap, and in my hybrid wrap/mei tai, and a borrowed mei tai. I've too tried wearing my baby in a towel, like to a higher place, but to try it out, and while it was ok, I recall my favorite manner of baby wearing is in my hybrid baby carrier. It gets so much use, information technology was a terrific investment! I've infant worn all three of my babies, and I take to say, it certainly has saved my sanity, non to mention, lots of money! It is also much easier to live without a car if you have a baby carrier- getting on and off buses is so much easier wearing a baby, and I am able to put my babe in the carrier and put groceries in the stroller when needed.
Are you lot a baby wearing mama? How many kids have you baby worn thus far?
What type or types of carriers did you utilise? Which was your favorite? Did y'all ever use one of the "in a pinch" carriers? Did you lot brand your own carriers or purchase them? If you lot ain some, how many practise you own (or take owned total at some point in your life)? (I own two stretchy wraps, got one actually uncomfortable Snugli corduroy carrier which I never wore so gave away, and my electric current hybrid wrap.)
If you oasis't infant worn yet, do yous think you'd try out whatever of these, particularly the frugal options, peculiarly the ones you lot can make with the stuff yous have in the house?
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